marriage

Doing things in the right way, Matatizo had to make arrangements to pay visit to Samba City which was the original homeland for his partner Olivia. The purpose for this urgent visit was to introduce himself to his in-laws officially before marriage. He applied for a quick passport and immediately booked an air ticket. During this time, Olivia had travelled to her home in Samba City to make arrangements for the visit. Him traveling by air for the first time was something exciting and he was looking forward to see himself in an aeroplane. On that day he moved towards the airport early in the morning than usual for the wise men men always state that the early bird catches the worm. With his Jumbo jet ticket and the passport at hand, he waited for the time set for the fly to take off.

The aeroplane took off exactly at 7:30 o'clock, the time that was clearly written on the air ticket. Air transport being the fastest means of transport, it didn't took them long before they reached Samba city. Matatizo was warmly welcomed by Olivia who was waiting for him at the airport. Samba City was so amazing since it was well developed with colourful buildings. The city was admirable making Matatizo to take his time to stare at the city before they boarded a vehicle towards the Northern sphere of Samba City. On arrival, he was welcomed by the family happily, shared a meal and went straight away to discuss on the way forward about marriage.

Thomas: Am called Thomas, a brother to Olivia and we are overwhelmed with joy meeting you. Welcome and feel at home.

Matatizo: (with a smile on the face) Am Johnson Matatizo , son to the late Abdallah Matatizo and Margaret .

Sir. Henry: (stretching his hand to greet Matatizo), am Henry , the head and father of this family. Am happy to meet you my son. It is with greet owner that we are extending our family. It is through socialism that great things happen.

Matatizo: (nodding his head as a sign of agreement) I agree with you, am also much happy being part of this great and blessed family. The gift a received from God is patience and after a long time of wait the fruits have been seen by landing on a brand new lady from this family. As God created the earth, He also created Adam and gave him his helper and companion (Eve). Me being in love with your daughter is an accomplishment of the biblical segments. It's a joyous occasion that am being connected with this beautiful angel created by God. Olivia is not only beautiful through appearance but also beautiful in her behavior. Today, I submit myself as the contestant to Olivia and hopefully we are going to agree.

(All people in the house laughs to the vibes)

Thomas: You are so funny brother.

Sir Henry: ( laughing) No problem son. All is well.

Matatizo: ( smiling) borrowing is better than stealing, I might lack some aspects needed but I love your daughter deep from my heart.

Olivia: (smiling at far end) mmmmh.

Mother- in-law entered the sitting room and waved the hands to everyone. Matatizo knew that this might be the general culture in all walks of the world since at his homeland mother-in -laws are highly respected and are not supposed to move closer to their son-in-laws. Olivia brought food at the table. This included snacks and soft drinks which different from Matatizo's expectations as he highly valued Ugali as the only stable food. Being in a new environment, he couldn't laugh or cry at same time but remained calm and took that( food for the sick) as he always referred to it as.

The conversation kept going as they sipped the drinks. Everyone had focus on Matatizo because he was very different from the entire meeting in appearance, skin colors, height and body size. This was much obvious to have differences because they were people from different continents.

Matatizo: How much will you charge me to take your daughter. I mean dowry.

Everyone in the room was shocked to hear this since in Samba they are women who pay dowry.

Sir. Henry:( laughing ) In our culture, we are the ones to pay you for taking our daughter.

In Samba, Matatizo was shocked to find out that dowry is paid by the wife's family. The main reason he was going to Samba was to negotiate for dowry and now that he was the one to receive it he had to keep his negotiation skills and waited for the final decision from Olivia's family. The entire family of Sir. Henry agreed to pay Matatizo a total of $70000 as a dowry price. Matatizo kept quiet not to say anything because this was completely different from his expectations. According to his culture, he was the one supposed to pay dowry. Matatizo accepted to take that offer without bargaining since it was a miracle to him.

Thomas: why are you shocked? Take time to learn cultural dynamics to have knowledge.

Matatizo: wisemen once said that walking alot is knowing alot and now I know. That's how knowledge is created and expanded. Brother, missing the route is knowing the route.

Sir.Henry: I like the level of thinking you have my son. This becomes one of the strongest reasons as to why we are giving you our daughter with an open heart. Can you please give us your PayPal account so that we can transfer the dowry to your account.

Matatizo: (smiling) I really appreciate.

He gave out his PayPal account happily and within no time he received an email on his phone. He quickly jarked out his phone and read the mail just to find out that it was the dowry agreed. Matatizo uttered appreciation words happily as they headed towards the end of the negotion. As days elapsed in Samba City, his passport was nearly expiring since it was only valid for two weeks. He tried to fasten the process to catch up with the fast moving time on a linear scale. There was a short conversation as the made a summary on terms and conditions for marriage.

Thomas: My brother, ensure that you take good care of my sister Olivia there at your continent and I wish you all the best as you begin new life.

Matatizo: Much appreciated brother.

Sir.Henry: I don't want to talk much because time is not on our side. Much has been said but you two(pointing at Olivia and Matatizo), have a long journey to accomplish in life. This is only a begining and a foundation to your marriage. I know you are going to encounter alot that can lead to conflicts but solve them and move on. If you have a problem don't loose hope thinking that problems is the end of life. There is always your day for blessings so always remain strong and God will come for You. Today I bless your marriage and always work hard for your life. Go out in all places in the world and be fruitful. Matatizo, you are the head of your family and always remain strong in your decision making process and solve problems accordingly.

Sir. Henry then gave a word of prayer as he finalized the meeting. After the prayers, Olivia moved to the kitchen and brought food at the table. Matatizo didn't like the meals in Samba City and he was eagerly waiting to go back to his home and enjoy his favorite meals. He tried not to misbehave by taking the meal and pretended to be okay at all times.

Having alot of money in his account, he decided to organize for a wedding on the same day .He had to make arrangements while still in Samba City. Him having knowledge in designing invitation cards, it appeared easy for him. He designed the cards and distributed them online to give time to the people in Samba City for preparations. He also invited them through the word of mouth while still in the meeting.

He quickly formed a WhatsApp group for his wedding and added people from Samba City. Through his efforts and preparedness, his in-laws gave him $4000 to gather for his wedding arrangements. Matatizo made everything easier through the help of his supportive wife and in-laws. Early the day that followed, he travelled back to New Jerusalem city which was his residential place. He left Olivia behind in Samba City after boarding an aeroplane. As things stand, it clearly seemed that Matatizo was born blessed since goes well for him. He was not used to travelling by air so it was so obvious that fears was in him. Some people may Wonder how aeroplanes moves in air and Matatizo was one of them. He could ask people if there are designated roads in air where aeroplane moves over. Such questions appear stupid but to Matatizo was very essential. In air, he travelled.