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mmm did you forget that your hero trained sakura? who had perfect chakra control without him, let's be realistic, in order to suck chakra from someone who controls it well, you need to have either much stronger chakra or much stronger will, I don’t know why in all fanfics they expose Aburame as something very strong, they are certainly strong as covert assassins or scouts, but no more. In 1v1 tournament fights, he will have no chance at all against any shinobi with common sense.
oh and what you talked about about the harem technically it is not possible to love two people equally but to be partial I've had countless girlfriends but for example I don't love them because I love my mother, father or brothers etc. If you've heard the saying that a girlfriend or your partner is your best friend, that's what it is for me I know that if I had a child with my girlfriend and she would have to choose me and he would save the child before me It's like brothers you can love one more than the other but that doesn't mean that if you can save one of them you would do everything possible to save both, or like a mother who loves a child more but if she has to sacrifice herself for one of them I would do it because that is true love