Miss_Behaviour
The first step is to find out if they both can align their lives with each other. If a healthy compromise canât be made, theyâre better off leaving each other even if itâll be painful for them to do so. The worst thing they can do to each other like most couples do is try to hold on to a relationship where neither of their wishes are fulfilled. The relationship would end up turning sour and at which point animosity and resentment will foster. I know they both want the other to be happy, but theyâre happiness comes before the other. Remember, youâre still two individuals in a relationship and no one should sacrifice their happiness for the other.
I'm guessing Lucy might not have a concrete answer for him for the obvious reasons. He bulldozed into her life knowing what he wanted and she is just along for the ride. She should suggest to take it one day at a time for now. (Just like in any recovery plan)đ Time limits create more anxiety and stress. And maybe talk to her parents about this. Usually parents have a different or better perspective.đ
What will she say?? Such a big part of it is that Lucy is so inexperiencedâŠ.. And Tom hasnât really had so many relationships but enough to know Lucy is it for him. But he is used to getting what he wants when he wants it too. How will they meet in the middle - where even is the middle except to let some tome pass?