Both main character are stupid and double dumb. The woman still accept the man after the psychology and physically tortured. He even raped you!!! And the man..... you call your aggressiveness towards woman as love? I found this writer can't interpret what loves really mean. This novel not worthy for reading. Such a waste on time, money and spirit stone. Really disappointed with the writer for damaging the true loves mean....
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LIKEi couldn't get past chap 45 for the same reason. LJ wasn't arrested for assault by that point, so i lost interest. add the tag Abuse or abusive relationship, maybe eventually itll show up on the description
uberdriver:The sadness when your 700+ chapter and u realize this truth. Glad I stopped at 300 around the miscarriage and thought im done wd this mentally unstable male lead and brain damaged female lead.
I hope they add em. So that many people will be prepared for a second LJ. I as one will evade those with tags like that since that does not portray romance at all but a promotion of violence in my only opinion. Im still trying to understand how.mamy people reached chapter 700 of this novel. I mean I only lasted around mid 300s with sheer will.
InfiniteBookWyrm:i couldn't get past chap 45 for the same reason. LJ wasn't arrested for assault by that point, so i lost interest. add the tag Abuse or abusive relationship, maybe eventually itll show up on the description
yeah, i was honestly reading all the reviews and lost a lot of hope (for humanity). apparently a lot of people find that kind of behavior "cute" or "sweet", which i find both sad and disgusting
uberdriver:I hope they add em. So that many people will be prepared for a second LJ. I as one will evade those with tags like that since that does not portray romance at all but a promotion of violence in my only opinion. Im still trying to understand how.mamy people reached chapter 700 of this novel. I mean I only lasted around mid 300s with sheer will.
It would hace been fine if the male lead have some issues but laying a hand like he does in the novel is really hard to swallow. Its like rapde due to misunderstanding. Oh wait that still sounds horrible.
InfiniteBookWyrm:yeah, i was honestly reading all the reviews and lost a lot of hope (for humanity). apparently a lot of people find that kind of behavior "cute" or "sweet", which i find both sad and disgusting
yeah, exactly. hes a scumbag, shes blind/stupid for staying with him. if you can't control your own emotions enough to stop from physically hurting people near you, then you need to: 1. Get Help (Anger management help) 2. Not be near people (esp while angry) 3. Grow up (the common adjective for people who are like this is "childish") The author is saying "its ok if your husband beats and belittles you, he probably loves you but is having a hard time with x. If you really love him you'll stick it out." which is wrong on so many levels.
uberdriver:It would hace been fine if the male lead have some issues but laying a hand like he does in the novel is really hard to swallow. Its like rapde due to misunderstanding. Oh wait that still sounds horrible.
My point exactly. I even read some reviews saying if only LJ is real in her life she would be so happy. MY world... I almost fainted. Its just the author gathered a great fanbase already and they only treat those negative bhaviors as exciting.
InfiniteBookWyrm:yeah, exactly. hes a scumbag, shes blind/stupid for staying with him. if you can't control your own emotions enough to stop from physically hurting people near you, then you need to: 1. Get Help (Anger management help) 2. Not be near people (esp while angry) 3. Grow up (the common adjective for people who are like this is "childish") The author is saying "its ok if your husband beats and belittles you, he probably loves you but is having a hard time with x. If you really love him you'll stick it out." which is wrong on so many levels.
Agreed. Actually i'm really dissappointed with the author who want to educate reader that this kind of aggressiveness is allowed in submitting love. Those ***** reader can misinterpret and fall into a wrong guy...
InfiniteBookWyrm:yeah, exactly. hes a scumbag, shes blind/stupid for staying with him. if you can't control your own emotions enough to stop from physically hurting people near you, then you need to: 1. Get Help (Anger management help) 2. Not be near people (esp while angry) 3. Grow up (the common adjective for people who are like this is "childish") The author is saying "its ok if your husband beats and belittles you, he probably loves you but is having a hard time with x. If you really love him you'll stick it out." which is wrong on so many levels.
I'm worried for those young generation to make wrong decision. When they meet one with LJ attitude, they stay with the person in the name of love hoping that the abusiveness will disappear thru time. But in reality it is hell forever...
uberdriver:My point exactly. I even read some reviews saying if only LJ is real in her life she would be so happy. MY world... I almost fainted. Its just the author gathered a great fanbase already and they only treat those negative bhaviors as exciting.
I also agree with you guys. But it seems like this kind of thing is repetitive through out any Chinese novell. Girl falls in love with a jerk who treats her like a emotional punchingbag but the girl still continues to wanna be with the guy. This is really scary, is one thing to fall in love with a jerk but to glorify a abuser and yet claim it is love. I wonder is the author blind and doesn't know what love is.
Right its like that in another novel by the same author maybe she was abused like that and is writing from what her perspective of love is.... if she is then she needs help
Duke_Shameless:I also agree with you guys. But it seems like this kind of thing is repetitive through out any Chinese novell. Girl falls in love with a jerk who treats her like a emotional punchingbag but the girl still continues to wanna be with the guy. This is really scary, is one thing to fall in love with a jerk but to glorify a abuser and yet claim it is love. I wonder is the author blind and doesn't know what love is.
Yeah, the sad thing is the readers here who are mentally ill. Thinking garbage of ml are hot,ä. I am starting to think that they are the same kind of women who write to serial killers in jail to confess their love. Sick people
rageaholic13:Right its like that in another novel by the same author maybe she was abused like that and is writing from what her perspective of love is.... if she is then she needs help
I believe content creators like authors have a responsibility in not sending bad messages to readers, especially impressionable ones. This book gives the horrible message that its OK if he beatvyou and raped you, as long as he loves you deep down. A man who truly loves you would never beat you or rape you. There is no excuse for abuse or rape.