Review Detail of Daoist_Large_Slong in The hivemind is conquering for me?

Honest review here around chapter 30. Overall the story is pretty good. However it has its pros and cons. Pros: The MC being raised by bugs is pretty cool as you dont read that often. Characters are well fleshed out. The abilities and different bug types are also well thought. Harem development is pretty solid. Ngl in the beginning i was thinking this story was too good.. until like most novels on here the bad will eventually show up Cons: The MC unfortunately retains a somewhat pathetic human mindset. On one hand he supports the hive.. then on the other he forces them to spare civilians and animals. Downright stupid tbh. And this is after 16 years of watching them “murder” other civilizations. These hives are literally decimating women, children and whole races.. and yet this dude wants to play hero in random moments. This is the biggest stain on this novel for me personally and killed the vibes. While not so infuriating is another minor annoyance of the MC refraining from full on sex with the queen and others for as long as he has. Im just gonna assume bro is a virgin. It doesnt matter what “excuses” he comes up with. It just screams virgin male.