Review Detail of zolie in After Getting Abandoned, I Choose to Become the General’s Wife

at first it was a nice rebirth novel no revenge no lengthy nonsense thing! i thought it was a slice of life where she would be enjoying her new life embracing new thing and getting a new job been kinda busy with little to do with no drama! but then bam it takes a sharp turn for me I don't know how to explain the FL character she feels like she needs to help everyone like it's her responsibility to make them achieve things in life! at first i like she just gave the ml some hint and help him though he didn't need her help cause obviously at past life he achieved everything without her helps ! but then she helps him and meddle in things that doesn't concerne her and then let her step mom family threaten her and make her guide them in the investment , she always putting herself and family in danger ! sometime i feel like she doesn't think and Judy go with the flow!! i just couldn't keep with it after troible comes up left to right without prior notice and she has to meddle in everything like a goody2choice or she feel like she is a peacemaker girl or something