Men love and do not fall in love. The men who understand this point will have a great relationship. For those who don't, beta/simp is the outcome. And let me explain to you word by word what I/we mean by this. Love is an emotion, we are aware of it, and allow it to grow and exist but we are never influenced by it. It exists in us, we live with it, indulge in it, and show it to our girlfriend/wife to the point where it can damage us. Once this line is touched, logic, reality, critical thinking, whatever you wanna call it will come into place and stop your foolish act! How much love do you show, how to show it, and when, is the next step that makes you a player, but before that, you need to understand the basics, my man!

I think you're reading a different story or doesn't know how children come to the world. the FL is younger, meaning her father did had other women when her mother was alive. There's no explanation until now why this happened but if there's non, it means her father was a jerk and your post is defending a jerk.

If I'm not wrong it should be something Jet Lee playing in... Kingdom Under Fire or something along. It's quite an old movie but a very good one.