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I never hated him either. I think they both made the huge mistake of never communicating in the first life. She worked hard to turn into what she thought he wanted, without talking to him about how she felt about it or what she wanted. He worked hard to try to protect her without telling her why he was was doing those things. But I do feel the first time around she had a bigger part in the problems because he was brought up in a very unloving (really abusive, though not physical) dysfunctional family and was naturally very silent and emotionally withdrawn. She had a loving normal family, despite the tragedy and was naturally outgoing and talkative. If she had shared a little more even basic feelings and thoughts things would have been so different! I don't hate her or think she is being awful though, just a lot of baggage from misunderstandings and neither realize they could clear them up without sounding crazy!
Me too! I get her first life was miserable, in a way because of him, BUT she was the one pursuing him then and was actively oblivious to so many things he not only noticed but tried to fight against to protect her. Yes, he behave cold and even cruel in his misguided attempts to shield her and should have explained himself to her before hand, but she never explained things to him either. She pursued him, wanted to marry him, but never said "I want this, or I hate that." I would say she is equally if, not more, responsible for the mess the first time. Then and now he is actively working to protect her. hehe has purposely distanced himself until he can protect her, while trying to watch over her and protect her from a distance. He made mistakes, but understood he screwed up and felt guilty about it. People act like a woman being emotional over trauma is ok, but not him? He was more traumatized than her and had no support or affection to help him through it in both lives.
I think Christopher is better. For one, Christopher actually took action, Jasper waited until she was out of reach. Even when Christopher appeared out of no where Jasper still could have spoken. Second Jasper was trying to force his perspective on Abigail instead of listening and accepting what she wanted. I think Jadper is in a good place now and he and Christopher both made mistakes but I think Abigail should be with Christopher!
I wish she had a bodyguard! I'm shocked she doesn't with everything that happened with Britney, plus her father and his enemies!
I want to see more of Abigail with both Anastasia and Vivian!
You need to explain, at least a little before hand!
The solution isn't to attempt to hide thongs from him! It is to either be honest and explain what you did, or explain that you want to keep your movements at your father's company separate from your personal life.
Would you guys just learn to have honest open communication already!?!?
I hope not!
So what is his mother even upset about? They have everything they would have gotten anyway, just in her son's name instead of her husband's!
Seriously? She attacks him, complains about him, how awful he has made her life, then is "hurt" by his calm logical response to it?