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I had a marriage pretty similar, emotionally. We separated, were in the final stages of divorce... but then we started talking like actual adults. No, the apologies didn't make anything go away. However, it was a start to the healing IF I accepted it. Her being this miserable about it all is normal, yes, but only she can change that. Not him. Once I accepted the apologies, especially after he had shown me he changed (like Aaron), I started healing. We started healing. We eventually got back together, and are now welcoming our 10th child into the world this year. With everything this man put me through, he proved to me he learned from his mistakes and actually changed. Our marriage has never been better. I feel that Aaron, who has changed, would make sure they had the life she wanted, just like my husband has been determined to do since getting back together. Do all people change? No, of course not. Do all people heal? Again, no. But change and healing is possible, but it takes action, acceptance, and forgiveness on both parts. There is tons of hope if Keeley would just listen. Both her heart and her mind are trying to tell her things, and she is being stubborn. She has to want to stop wanting to hate him.
I am quite literally screaming. I get Keeley is hurt, but maaaaaaaan..... he explained everything. I'd honestly take my anger out in Lacey and Alistair so Aaron and I could be free to be together. Keeley, don't run. Problems always follow. Wake up and face them, fight another day, and go get your man!