Clara Life

growing up, my hubby is to read and write, nothing comes to my head except that. until i started making friends...who engaged me in immoralities, I never know what leasibean is.... we kept on doing it and was having fun with it. then it became a Life style for me. I did all manner of things while growing up..In my primary 4, I and my classmate chimaobi went to a secret place and was doing some ugly stuffs. It became part of me..that if chimaobi did not come to school or go back home after dismissal, I will be feeling lonely...So i engaged myself again with a boy named ifedi, and was enjoying this ugly life.

No one could catch us, I couldn't open up to my siblings or my parents I kept it to myself because it was all fun for me.

I finished my primary school.....and the ugly Life of mine still continues....

my parents started being too accommodating....my house was full of visitors that claims to be family friends, drama people and so on.

it became the worst experience I ever had this should be in my 9years. there is this so called family friend called Daniel..every day he will carry me inside and be molesting me, touching every part of my body. Untill One very day he tried to dig inside me..that was the day I don't know whether I will say he break me or my menses started uptil now am still asking this question who BROKE MY VIRGINITY Is it my Husband not Sure is it Daniel am still Confused...I couldn't talk no one to talk to...That same they I stood up to go and fetch water my sister was rejoicing and was telling me that my cloth has stained..that I am welcome to teenage hood, that I have started seeing my period....I still don't understand what she meant she gave me pad...and I went and change the skirt...I don't have the mind and heart to tell her what Happened to me. I was told that menses is 28 days cycle and the flow was just like that for me.

In my 14yrs I travelled to a village called Achi in orji Local government Area where I started relationship with two guys chidera and chibuike....we did not have anything in particular but they are just my boyfriend. I prefer chibuike to chidera just because he shows more care..just knowing them in a month, i was told to go and stay with my grandma in the village at Abia...it was not funny at all I was crying..but my father said is a must I go there..which I later did..this Life continues with different boys all together. both in the school I was going.

The bitter one is to almost having an affair with someone I call cousin...or so called uncle called chibuisi...he tried to sleep with me till my mom entered the compound and shouted Clara where are you..come and buy something...that is the only reason he didn't take advantage of me. Now another of my Cousin he is my dearest cousin by name Arinze.. we share things in common he is too kind and accommodating..married with four kids...him, the wife and children loves me very much I Love them back ...Until that very day I choose to visit them at Awka, not knowing that his likeness and caring has turned to something else. he tried to take advantage of me..which he didn't succeeded. I started withdrawing from him.., was asking him why me? Is it that you didn't remember we are blood again? or that I didn't tell you that they have paid my dowry? so I stood up and asked him to drive me back home..which he did.

Still couldn't tell anyone not even my mom when she was still alive..I Lost my Mom 2020, My Dad 2015. my grand ma died that same 2015 before my Dad.

I came back to Enugu with my mom 2015 after my Dad has been buried.

I started a New Life Again....There is this Obinna, a friend to my brother that helped in my dad's burial...we spoke with each other and exchanged Numbers. I and Obinna started dating..My mom liked him so much. She was praising him because of the rendered help he offered In my Dad's burial..

As we were dating, i noticed that Obinna don't have any shame...even if you want to do anything with a girl you called your girlfriend, are you supposed to be doing it in her house?

he was romancing me in my own house we did this I became tired of him. I noticed that this kind of person don't have any future with me. So I decided to follow my Sister and go to her church ..where I met this young man..every day I come to church, he will be looking at me. I will do as if am not noticing him, he told his friend about me..so the two of them came to our house..that is where the Love story begans....

We shared a whole lots of taught from the very first day I saw you I know you are mine and so on. I started dating him on the 19th of September 2015. The very first he invited me to his house, he told me that he don't do a close market that he is doing a open market..I was like what do you mean Mr Man? he said he must taste his item before buying it...still speaking riddles but I now understood where he is coming from., I told him we will know each other better first. I left his place...I Finished my Waec 2016 with the successful help of my Family and the God saint husband of Mine. I started looking for job. the first job and the mistake I ever made was accepting to be an Admin in one church like that...that turned against me, that almost ruined my Life..and my Relationship.accused of so many things that was not intentionally pulled up by me but by the person am working under....😭The the first sales girl I did was at Ifesi bridal 2016 Second was at babies shop 2016 third at Uche jwelleries 2017, fourth at okuta standard electronic 2017-2018 then the Final one is at Sir Mbadugha chattered Accountant in 2018-2019.

This young man called me that they want to go and see my people...I said okay we Left to Umuahia with my Mum to see my Uncle that represents my Dad. they accepted his offer...First step archieved... One of my customer called Watu from okuta standard electronic called me to wish me a happy birthday he transfered money to me....I said thank you Sir..I use to do well bill for him to Orji. so he said I should come to Orji and collect the phone he bought for me.. genuinely I went without having anything in mind..we met and he carried me to his house...I was like what am I doing here? he said I should keep quiet na he tried to remove my cloth brought out his dig..I stood up immediately..he did not succeed he gave me transport money at 6pm to find my way back to Enugu...my husband to be then didn't know about this.

12th December 2018 the very young man paid my dowry traditionally...then may 25th 2019 he took me to the Altar. we started Living Life

As a married woman...I began to see Life in another dimension...I began to understand that Life is full of trials and temptation but it takes one Man to conquer it....some part of my story he knows about it..some he doesn't know... but due to the Kind of care and Love he has for me I decided to open up and tell him everything about it..un luckily to me this man that Loves me, always doing everything for me, always enduring my bed wetting...and telling me everything will be fine that I should stop crying...and all that...broke up with me that how can I hide such truth from him..after so many years. My Marriage is Broken my heart 😭

Now I realized that there are some Truth that Is better not Said in order to save your Marriage. Even if you want to say it Look for someone your partner listens to, someone he respects... talk to the person first before any other thing.

STORY OF MY LIFE