PICKING UP PEOPLE AROUND YOU !!

PICKING THE PEOPLE

We as humans do not exist without people or in proper terms , the society. We need people to stay around us and for the question , why do you need people around you ,here I get into the details !!

WHY DO YOU NEED PEOPLE 



It's been quite a common scenario now that we blame society for the negative imbalances in one's life. Peer pressure and many more . 

Now , as they say the coin has two sides , the society also has a positive light for which we need that. 

Society being the strength of a person , many of us fail to realize. It teaches you to react , to approach to solution of a problem. 

Believe me when I say , it all happens so subconsciously.

PEOPLE TO PICK



We may have problems or concerns with people. We may not be able to do much after everything's affected you but we have a choice to prevent that from happening which is quite a good one !!

It's been a rough patch one everyone's life whenever they make a wrong decision in choosing people. 

You know it all , but you really don't care much. It's just filtering. 

Ask yourself these questions before stepping up , but don't just follow them with a blind eye, apply that thing in your head called brain !! 

1. HOW DID YOU MEET HIM/HER ? 

2. IS HE/SHE UPLIFTING YOU ? 

3  IS HE/SHE HOLDING YOU BACK ? 

4. IS HE/SHE GIVING YOU A NEGATIVE IMPACT ? 

JUSTIFICATION FOR THE QUESTIONS

Now  , as told you have to use your intellect . The question above decide it all. That's my formula for picking people. It's so complicated though. 

Remembering the first moment on how you both met is so important because this gives you a positive picture on your mind straight away and with that state of mind you ought to take the right decisions.After all. we don't want to end up making wrong choices.

For the means, I don't intend to say the if your answer is yes for question for 3 and 4, then leave the person first up.

It's so common for people that negativity develops in everyone. It depends on you on how you take it. The fact that many of the people cannot tolerate negativity , its just the matter of giving up. If you are strong enough to take it and change, then I strongly suggest you to hang out with them.

If people are uplifting you, in other means if they are keeping up with you no matter what you do, I say they are the one's who shine up your life. Never miss out on them.

If you want to know more about negativity and ways to deal it, check out my article

NEGATIVITY , A CONCERN ?

THE WAY YOU SEE IT



Seeing upon the people's external character and catching upto that for making decisions is so easy. There are very few people who are able to see the character within.

Japanese history says that everyone has a character within them that they haven't revealed to the outer world. Just in an intent that 'You know who you really are, you know what you do".

It deserves so much for a person to see within, a pure heart and soul and the greatness of acceptance without any negative thoughts. The moment you have these traits , you will able to see through and the truth lies there.

FINAL SAY

People now-a-days have so much trouble in stepping up to take right decisions in choosing people. It was never there before because the souls have become trust less and hearts are filled with impurities.

Follow your heart ,never get those influential talks of others into consideration.

Anyway, at the end we want our soul to be happy .

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