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Chapter no 1: Love and Respect

Love is a combination of respect, friendship, understanding, communication and companionship. No one loves without respecting that person and trusting him with all your heart. There will be no broken relationship if everyone knows how to respect each other. Do not expect respect from the worst people it will only waste your time.

One day a couple got an invitation to a party, after reading that invitation wife says "I have nothing to wear" which she means has had nothing new to wear and the husband says "I've nothing to wear" which means that he has nothing clean to wear".

Isn't it fascinating that we repeat the same dialogues every day between each other but it means something else to one another?

I remember a tale my mom used to say twice a week when we go to bed it goes as the wife asks his husband "what do you think about me?" When their husband replies "You are very significant when she listened to it she went angry but she calmed herself down and she replied, "What do you mean by this?" Well! I have been thinking about you a lot lately and if you die, I don't know how will I survive without you and that is why you are very significant to my survival

May I suggest you something?

We must understand what our partners mean by what they say, I agree with the fact that a woman looks up to the world with pink glasses, pink hearing aids, and a pink megaphone and the way she speaks is the way she thinks but a man looks up at the world with blue, blue hearing aids, blue megaphones, blue sunglasses... but when this blue and pink colour combines it makes up the purple colour, the colour of royalty where this relationship of a husband and wife beautify.

Let's take one example from religious aspect

Hazrat Adam علیہ السلام was in paradise but all alone then GOD sent Hazrat Bibi Hawa in paradise and tied a knot of Nikkah between them so that they can reflect the image of GOD,

Sometimes it happens that people believe that they are equal and same, Yes! Couples stand equal for each other but both are not on the same page not just because their gender is different but additionally because of their thoughts, their mindsets, their perceptions and many more. Most of the people assume that if my partner is not as same as me they are abnormal but that is a huge mistake...The reason of this huge mistake is illustrated as "The husband knows how to please his wife and the wife is concerned how to please her husband" so the view where we all have to come up is that I trust the goodwill of my partner but will I trust their goodwill? Why is that important?

However, each of us must love his wife as he loves himself and the wife must respect her husband