She Messaged! (again), aftershocks of breakup..

We've all been there at the end of the rope. We've all either ended things or have had someone else to end things for us. It's, one of those emotional places that no one ever wants to be in. It's awkward as hell, I know.....

But you know what's even more awkward, when your EX bumps into your life & you don't know what to say, do or how to behave. It's like suddenly, you forget what it's like to be human, you've frozen! Break-ups are bad but what's worse is when your EX tries to cling on you and get you back in her life! I am sure you too might have gone through such phase when you are barely over her & she appears out of nowhere and tries to fuck with your feelings.....

There is no set way to behave after your breakup - not with yourself, not with people around & definitely not with the one you've broken up with. It's like breaking a mirror and trying to piece it back together while trying to avoid looking into it because the cracks distort the image. It's unavoidable and most times, impossible.....

You do what you got to do and how you've got to do it to ensure that you get out of it. How much time you take to get out of it is relative and no one has the right to judge you for that. Maybe you were in love and were to get married, or maybe you just started dating.. it doesn't matter. A connection is a connection and breaking away from that is always hard to do.....

There is no set rulebook or guideline on how to behave with oneself, or with others after a breakup. So, you have rebound sex with someone, drink your sorrows away, cry yourself to sleep or just date the fuck out of people. The important thing is that you get over it when you do. Everything else is secondary....

"Once your break a thread, and try to rejoin it. It may be, but there will be a knot always in-between."