Asexual b

May 5 2019

My mother wouldn't believe me if I told her I was asexual. "You just have trauma," which was true, but not the reason. I've never been interested in the concept of sex. Even if I would be married, I would find it unappealing and odd.

Hetero-asexual means that I'm into the other gender. I can find people attractive, but nothing more. I get crushes from which comes from their personality. That doesn't mean I'm not a romantic. I very much am.

I'd blush at holding hands, a peck on the cheek, or a butterfly noise kiss. That's all adorable. I'd get cuddly too. And that would be the extent of how physical I'd want to get.

I've always been like this. And that's alright. What matters is identifying what I'm comfortable with. Every person is different. Not all asexuals are the same, just like not every human being is the same. We are all different, and that's great. :)