Yin Si
I don't know about you guys but if my child were in the wrong then he'd be punished but there's no way in hell I'd sit back as the opposing party humilates him. If you want to be reasonable then we'll be reasonable. Go overboard and you forfeit your rights to an apology. I would never let anyone throw feces at my child regardless of what he did.
How is it honorable to cover the shortcoming of family... isnt that what every xianxia evil boss does... is it a chinese ideology to pretend no crime happened.. or in this case mistake....punishing your children so they grow up with morals is what a parent are supposed to do... you can see the results in today culture. Take hurricane harvey for instance. People volunteer and travel to help strangers who lost everything. Thats american/westen culture. However in most asian cultures. After a disaster only government and relief workers...and close tribal member will help people however close tribal members only help people in the tribe. Or friends that have benefits.. tribe is family or extended family but thats pretty much it. Also most relief organization are western culture and have few eastern people working in them will use china as the example only because i like beating up on them. For such a dence population base they sure have few members joining relief organizations you will always see the majority be westerns or western belief raised personal i Germany group came to mind and some russians there not actually western but they have families that raise there children to admit mistakes and take responsibility for there actions. . This was extremely visible with relief workers in africa and iraqi from personal experince .just gave a micro and macro scale of the difference between these two cultures. And the results that can be determined from the way a family is reared.