Comments of chapter undefined of Reincarnated as a Deadbeat Dad

Is the MC in the novel his wife? because if it's the man I'm sorry to say but he's a joke character, 61 chapters and he hasn't done anything other than depend on others, besides he feels guilty for not helping his wife before he reincarnates, the mc just keeps lamenting and being an extra character in the novel, this plot is starting to get annoying, I hope that now you make the mc take on his role otherwise I'll drop it