Drinnor
Ned is a coward for not warning his children about what’s going to happen. He could be talking to his children about responsibility, giving them heads up specially Rob and how it’s important to stay loyal to the Targaryen. Jon is a bit cruel for hanging out with a Stark children. I know he doesn’t mean it to be that way, but from an outsiders perspective it’s almost as if he’s enjoying their happiness before it is ruined.