enthu_reader
totally agree with Ai, I also thought about that when I remembered the way he behaves in front of Shui's mother when he was a kid hihi...well, his obsession to Shui could also because of his belief about perfection...he believes that Shui is perfect for him, so the moment that Shui drifted away from him, it goes against his belief, and he cannot accept it because it will become imperfect, his life will become imperfect
Ai is so eloquent. I love how honest and blunt she is, but compassionate all at the same time. She truly loves Jun and if she didn't then she wouldn't have cared so much about what had happened in his lifetimes and his current self. I also agree with her thought process on relationships. If two people are too different on their morals, interests, etc. then it's most likely not going to work out due to compatibility issues. Relationships that do work are those that have some commonalities but also their own individualistic interests. Honestly, I know I would hate to be with someone who was too much like me. lol. I love myself, but I wouldn't marry someone that was like myself lol. I also wouldn't want to be with someone who I can't talk to either lol. Glad I married my husband who can deal with me and share my interests in life. For example, we both love watching anime or listening to rock music, but he loves playing golf or going to the shooting range and I don't. However, to compromise the relationship and to make it work, I would go do those things with him as a date here and there because I know it'll make him happy. Relationship is also all about compromise and sacrifices to make your significant other happy. Because when he's happy, it makes me happy! 😊 Oh Jun, we've all known you had a crush on Xinyi way back then lol. It's completely normal to have crushes on older people. Whether it's their looks or personality that draws you to them, it doesn't matter because it's a crush and crushes are not really meant to be pursued but admired from afar. I'll even admit that I had a crush on my 4th grade teacher lol. I knew he was married and had kids but I also knew that the reasons why I crushed on him in the first place was most likely due to the influence his wife and kids had on him. Alright, enough of my essay. lol. Thanks author for another amazing 2 chapters!! 😁
Exactly my point. Ai did an amazing job in making him understand the whole crux of his obsession with Shui. Now I just want to see how Jin would get punished for what he did. I also wonder if Jin is really the one who loved Shui? What if he loved Guiying? If he did then he could be fake MrPerfect. I can't wait to find fake MrPerfect's real identity.
not only mr.lui but everyone..because even though we say opposites attract but it's and experienced fact that couples can't sustain with too many differences it's really hard and tiring to bring some common point..not only that if only one person is adjusting it to make that relationship work..it's all set of new problems because the person eventually feels sorry for their self and start hating the partner to make them suffer...although shui did not do much of efforts or that's what I feel..she may have started feeling that burden of aligning her life with jun..ai doesn't feel that because what she likes jun likes so they can give it easily to the other person