I_am_Creator
She needs to just explain everything to him, that she doesn't want to be Bella anymore and the past is the past for a reason. If he couldn't love her for who she is now, then he doesn't deserve her. I get he's spent his whole life waiting for her, but he also has to understand how bad her past was and why she doesn't want to be that person anymore. They may be one in the same, but she can also choose who she wants to be.