Lilac in May
You like her because she can take care of herself, she and her family have to do that. If they reach a point where they know that they cannot handle it then they'll ask you provided that they would feel that they wont owe you. This family does not like owing anyone unless absolutely necessary, its also a benefit for you because if there is a situation where you are not around and need someone to protect your child you can be assured that she has the ability to do so. .