I really don't think Hanhan was too much! I mean that guy received a big NO from Luxia 5 times already and still thinks she will accept him!
Since words doesn't work with him, maybe a good beating will!
He can trust his wife, but that doesn’t mean he has to trust that guy. He already screams stalker. Outright confronting her about her relationship, following her around, Continuously pursuing her… This guy clearly doesn’t know when to stop.