RVN_1998
Personally, I believe in blood bonds and so I don't think you should just ignore and disrespect a family member sincerely trying to help you. Even if you don't need any help with situation, she doesn't know that and is just trying to provide you with a better option but you treat it as if she's trying to take advantage of you.
Something wrong with the structure of this mother-son story, when the father dies and the son is in a coma for 6 years the mother only visits a few times, while the mother has to be at the sect elder level to be able to lift others to the outside elder, and she didn't bring main back to the sect to take care of him but leave him in the middle of the enemy's siege for 6 years, even when her husband be assassinated, she did not take revenge or do anything, and now she expects him back to the sect with her just like while he in a coma that he not worthy. plus a cliche contest if she wants to help just stay and help her son to build his career or give him some stone instead.
Hm, fastest assumption is she has obligations to this sect that surpass family. Like Dao Partners, she was probably young and in a moment of passion, conceived our MC. I don't think it's stated they were married. If she wanted to focus entirely on cultivation it's not unusual behavior for cultivation novels. Just the way it be sometimes, not all mothers are maternal.
Is a powerful person from a sect which I presume to be powerful and yet weaker people still dared to kill her husband? And then she left her child in a coma for years and provided minimal help? I think he’s well aware of The importance of power afterall weaklings in a kingdom didn’t even fear her sect which if strength facts follow the normal rules of cultivation Worlds they could have asked for the heads and been served them on a platter and yet nothing. Showcases absolutely no love or familial piety and now she wants to protect him. Audacious, hypocritical, and hilarious. I await a humbling and face slapping.