Brother Ling
In your dreams you're just jealous that you'll never be able to match up to her and the family u rely on so much she wants nothing to do with ha. Plus that sixth elder did he have something to do with her mother's death how'd he of all ppl end up with her notebook and dare to not give it to her daughter but instead a freaking pretentious woman who only panders to him to use him unreal but at least she got a kind of copy from tingyun I guess but her mother's would be better for her and might have some clues for her.