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is it worth it or not I don't know but i know one thing is that when a person stands at that phase of life many people would give up on the families cause after being a soldier the love for your country becomes so much that at that point it likes giving up your life if you give upon country . that's why u would have heard if given many soldiers would be ready to give up life for the country than retreat .. i am saying it from my perspective only cause if I ere given a choice i would do the same
That's why the soldiers deserve the highest honor! They put people & country above their everything! They keep us & our families safe so i think it's our responsibility to take care of their families while they r away but sadly no one remembers it. In most of countries retired soldiers & their families don't have good life.
I agree with Raelle's thoughts on feelings and responsibilities does not go hand in hand~ Choosing to serve the country means that you have to prioritize duty above everything including your feelings as it may be a conflict while on duty~ you can't use feelings on duty but rational thoughts to complete a mission~ between family and country~ it's definitely hard to choose but you protect your country from harm to make sure your loved ones are living a carefree life~ but you won't have much time to spend with your family is a big sacrifice that may be worthwhile if you think about it~ nobody is perfect~
Dilemmas like that are always so interesting. Its tough coz in a role like Papa Xiang he truly doesnt get to be selfish and he has to live with that like he has been doing so far. Theres other ppl who would choose their child over the safety and lives of many, but that comes with a whole new set of consequences too. Sometimes there is no good choice, its just one has different consequences than the other
hey author i know people will always have to choose between responsibility n feelings i personally feel that both have their own place in one's life some people think feelings are all that matters and some have exactly opposite opinion on same matter from my pov it is all about what u think is priority sometimes u have to let go of ur feelings for ur responsibility it is just that one cannot everything in the world if someone is pleased with u someone else might be mad it is all about choice whom u want to be n who u want to be happy. That's all is what I want to say.đđ
I don't know what it is like to be in a soldier's shoe. I know the human in me would definitely put my family and loved ones first. But I want to believe that if I committed myself to being a soldier, I will put my country first. It is not an easy choice, but one that highlights the importance of consequences of choices we make. This is a consequence that would certainly be too much for me, which is why I am thankful I am not living in a situation where I have no choice but to be soldier and also why it was never a career path I considered.