Scarlet_Shine
There isn’t anything wrong with his response. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his children. It’s just that he reasons this out differently. This would only be a problem if the mother & children were critcal & he had to make a choice. There are many other people who put the children first and the wife after them once kids are born. My parents were like that. It was very extreme & damaged their marriage. I think I like Feng Sufen’s reasoning better