Redsunworld
in relationships give and take is a must . you shouldnt give everthing and expect nothing from her/him or act like a beta. if you do that your partner will start to think they deserve everything , s/he is better than you or s/he is more important than you etc. s/he will stop seeing you as a person and start to see you as a something to exploit. this will end/kill the relationship bettween you and your partner.or it will be abusive relationship. it is important to create a hierarchy in relations. it could seem like its a cruel, bad or cold thing to do but exactly its very good and benafitial for wellbeing and longevity of the relatinships.and its utmost important to do this when things starts to became real beetwen you.