Xincerely
He is starting to remind me of the Zheng guy from author's other book who was a complete asshole. It is extremely concerning that he can act like this when he loses his temper. It is a common theme of abusive relationships to lash out when angry, apologize and blame it on the temper, says he/she will not repeat it again until the next moment he/she loses their temper and blames it on the victim/his temper again.
I'm sorry, but that is not a man at all. A man knows how to treat a woman and Wen Jinkai does not know it. I don't care about his past at this moment and how he doesn't know how to love blah blah blah you don't EVER treat a woman like that. All controlling, possessive and can't seem to remotely think about his wrong deeds for one second before spewing out utter bull crap and having the second party who's innocent apologize!! Oh hell no. To me he is manipulative and a narcissist. An disgusting combo to have in a man! Before he even thinks about chasing after our FL he needs to recognize his own flaws and fix them because he won't be able to if someone fixing it for him. Only when a person wants to change will they change and I pray to God that our FL sees that and makes that very clear to him!!