klmorgan
So the family are scam artists! Thieves! Say what! Um... idk if they have this in Australia, but here in the U.S. you can claim identity fraud! asap! And I would and if that doesn't work, find a way to change your whole identity and move you and your family to different location so when he tries looking for you he can't find you. Move out the country to another.
I strongly feel that any self respecting woman should handle her own finances (if legally possible). Make sure you take care of yourself first and then others. How can you support/help others if you do not help yourself? Relationships can always fail, make sure you have something to fall back on (again, if legally possible).