Scarlet Phoenix
When Zai Hua loves she truly gives her whole heart. And for her to have this character even though she is in the army to still be so pure and simple minded bless her soul.
poor girl, she's so worried about loving her kid. she will do just fine, it is this kind of character in a person that makes them a good parent to all their kids equally. she'll be able to see their individuality and celebrate it, unlike her own parents who created a "golden child" in their blindness.