Bei Chuan Yun Shang Jin
Even if you are his father (more like sperm donor), you can't expect your child to follow and respect you automatically because Mister, in case you don't know, respect is earned, not freely given no matter who you are! You have to deserve the love and respect you want!!! You've been such as unfilial father, how can you expect a child loving you? Even a puppy would bite its own owner if not treated right!