Comments of chapter undefined of Back Then, I Adored You
Back Then, I Adored You
Ye Fei Ye
Chapter comments37
We understand that she has gone through a trauma but still she sometimes go overboard with every reaction of hers. At least she can consider that Lu Bancheng was the one by her side when her ten year old boyfriend was cheating on her. I really feel bad for Lu Bancheng for the sacrifices he has made to make her happy. I think he has already had enough.
Time heals all wounds. Even scars disappear as years go by. I can truly say so based on my experiences. Just as Wennuan is thinking to herself, she is slowly realizing the anger in her heart is slowly mellowing. Soon, her trauma will break off and her fear of Bancheng will fade away in time. She is not greedy, she is not selfish. She is normally a kindhearted woman who was traumatized with the unexpected hurts she went through one after another. Is there any one woman who can endure the pains she has gone through?
Nuannuan really didn’t know about Zero/Lu Bancheng. Her feelings are very natural but after sometime she will soon realize. To hate a person is also loving a person you cannot hate if you have no feelings for the person. Time will tell when hate becomes love and when love comes everything will be forgiven.
other people don't get her situation, i understand the purpose of her character now. This should be an eye opener. To understand women who've experienced emotional and sexual abuse. I do sympathize Lu Bancheng's situation, yes he have done a lot for her. but you can't expect appreciation from someone if you've been doing it in secret. just like cheating, ypu can't say a person is cheating if you didn't hear or see him/her doing it. Her reactions are real believe me, and that kind of trauma will last forever BUT as time goes by you will accept that bad experience already happened IN THE PAST, and you have to move forward. But you will be cautious to men. You will always have a certain distance that you will feel safe. I hate abortion, and the women who's doing it. But sometimes this people do it because they are mentally unstable, and that was her case, and I understand that. Not everyone can live with a reminder of their horrible past. If she aborted the child because she was young and can't provide then that's bull****. Why had sex in the first place. But of it's through rape, I keep my mouth shut. I MAY UNDERSTAND HER SITUATION BUT I CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND HER FEELINGS. Other women and men would decide to abort their child because THEY AREN'T READY, THOUGH THEY ENJOYED MAKING IT. How much more for someone who felt helpless because she can't do anything, she wasn't strong enough to defend herself, all she can do is cry, beg as that person ruined her chastity and innocence.
